A top and renowned female marriage counsellor from Ghana, Lady Reverend Dr. Mrs Charlotte Oduro, has told married women to focus on finding better solutions to the cheating habits of their husbands instead of worrying themselves sick over it.
She said that men who cheat in marriages or relationships will eventually get tired of their infidelity and extramarital affairs and return to their legally married wives.
Lady Reverend Dr. Mrs Charlotte Oduro , was speaking during a question and answer session on Accra-based radio station, Hitz Fm. Responding to a question from a caller, she said “She should never think we have never seen it before. I have been married for eleven years. I have seen relationships, I have gone through them. I am not saying cheating is the best thing but I am not losing my husband to any woman.
I won’t do it. Maybe the fault is coming from me. If the men do not know where they are coming from you are his help mate”
She further advised “If you are reasonable and you are working, he is cheating, let him cheat, when he finish, he’ll come because you are too busy taking care of him and making sure he dresses well.
Marriage needs a lot of sacrifice, women we need to learn this. Men have ego, you can’t change it, that’s the way they are, women need to submit, give him that respect, work, let him cheat when he’s tired he’ll come. Women stop being suspicious, leave him, do your part as a woman in your home.”